Time-devouring challenges

From The Book of Matthew

Posted by: on Sunday, October 17, 2010

Now that we’ve entered the best weather of the year, it should come as no surprise that 2010 is rapidly coming to a close. Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and News Years are barreling towards us with barely enough time in between to catch your breath.

The good news is the top and doors are off my Jeep. Next we’ll turn off the AC and open up the house. Fall in Florida really is my favorite time of year.

Despite the lack of time remaining in the year for business, I am encouraged by the steady increase in new opportunities for Milestone. New leads keep coming in, and old leads keep popping up. Current work continues at a slow and steady pace, and the 2011 business plan is taking shape.

The unfortunate reality of this growing business is its negative impact on two things that are near and dear to my heart. The first is my volunteer time. Over the last twelve months I’ve met hundreds of people and made dozens of friends through my participation in various business organizations.

Of course I’ll do my best to maintain those relationships, but the reality is that I must shift my focus to paying clients. As our revenues grow to support the business we will begin to bring our freelance associates on board as fulltime employees. That may free up some time for more volunteer work, but I doubt it. The opposite is more likely as that level of growth will bring with it a new set of time-devouring challenges.

The second negative impact is more personal. My father was a workaholic. And while I don’t resent that aspect of my childhood, I do regret the fact that we weren’t able to spend more time together.

With each passing week I have a growing fear that my commitment to the success of this business is having an ill-effect on my family. Of course it’s easy to argue that I am doing this for my family, but that’s hard to justify when it severely limits the amount of time I can spend with my family.

Until next week,

Matthew Anderson, President
Milestone Marketing Associates, Inc.


Comments


Matthew, From our conversations and the fact that you are very aware of the change of seasons, not only in Florida, but in your own life; I am encouraged to believe you will balance the demands on your time in an exemplary fashion.
Posted by: Sara Hand on October 19, 2010 at 8:32:00 am

Matthew, I appreciate you candor in this piece and can totally relate. It can be a challenge to balance a passion for 'being in the world' and 'being with your world, your family.' Best advice I have... be sure to make a date [i.e schedule regular, mandatory family meetings]. :) I'm glad to hear all is going well for you. ~JK
Posted by: Jeff Kratsch on October 18, 2010 at 10:04:00 pm

Congratulations on the business growth, and best wishes for achieving balance.
Posted by: Susan Hicks on October 18, 2010 at 2:20:00 pm

Matt, there usually isn?t a comparison between generations. We were of the belief that nose to the grindstone ?is? what you did for your family. Society?s new outlook on family time versus work time is making it easier for all parents. Employers, including your father, are stressing and supporting this new outlook. I would personally say that he was ahead of the curve in implementing this for retention with new younger employees.
Posted by: Ron Leonard on October 18, 2010 at 8:39:00 am

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